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Tuesday, September 15, 2020
FOUR WISE SECRETS and ENTERTAINING
Done is Better Than Perfect!
Sandra Felton, THE ORGANIZER LADY®
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Contents of New Ideas for Today
1. Message of the Day - SECRETS
2. Did You Know?
3. Habit of the Day
4. Family Reminder of the Day
5. Quote of the Day
6. Question of the Day
7. From the Trenches - ENTERTAINING
8. More Info
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1. Message of the Day - FOUR WISE SECRETS
Lately I've been spending more time with my forever-neat
ninety year old mother. She has just moved into a nursing
home in order to be near me. I've had a chance to see in a
new way what secrets have kept her easily neat and organized
all of her life. Her hearing is very poor and her memory is
fading but the characteristics of a lifetime which have given
her a consistently lovely and organized home are still with her.
For instance, I used a sugar packet and put the empty envelope
on a table. "Put that on the tray, honey," she said casually.
Her first secret is: She keeps on top of things. Things are not
put up later. They are kept up as she goes.
Her second secret is she is visually alert and sensitive. If
anything is out of place as in trash, empty boxes, or clothes not
hung up, she sets about to rectify the situation. She does not
tolerate visual disorder well.
She is in a wheelchair so her ability to take care of things is
limited. "Let me get someone in here to take care of that," she
says when something needs to be thrown away. And she flags down
an attendant to do it. Her third secret is that she knows what she
wants and she does not hesitate to ask for help to get it.
Finally, she keeps only what she needs and will use. She lost an
earring. "Get rid of the other one," she said. "Only keep what you
can use."
If I have given you the impression that she is a detail person who
is driving everybody crazy trying to keep her room neat, I have
given you exactly the wrong impression. The funny thing is that
she is so relaxed and casual about it that you hardly notice what
she is doing. It is only because I have listened and watched
carefully that I have noticed how she operates.
Her habits grow out out of her personal characteristics. For ninety
years she has lived an effortlessly organized life because what she
does works. Boy, do those secrets work!
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2. Did You Know?
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out your home!
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No more sliding cards into sleeves; the NEW K.I.S.S.
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begin, make a few simple choices each day from one card and you will
be on your way to a clutter-free and well maintained home.
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3. Habit of the Day
FOLLOW THE RULE OF TEN (AMBIVALENCE BOX THINGS)
Gather ten things you know you should get rid of but don't want to. Put them
in an Ambivalence box which you store out of the way. Put a date on the box
when you will move it out of the house. You may retrieve an item you must up
until that day. On that date, however, the box is forever sealed to you and
the box of things is given away.
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4. Family Reminder of the Day
In our family, we put up toys, games, tools, and stuff we are using
immediately.
In our family, we don't leave things out just because we plan to get back to
the project later.
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5. Quote of the Day
Cathy in Cathy comic strip
"I want more out of life, but I want less in it."
Getting more out of life often involves
having less in our lives. Ummmmm
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6. Question of the Day
Is there anything, habit, or idea that you are totally unwilling to give up
at this time? You want to change badly. But not at the expense of this one
thing. If there were such a thing in your life, what would it be? Identifying
it clearly is important for improvement.
Tell us by posting on
Friends-of-The-Organizer-Lady. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Friends-of-The-Organizer-Lady
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7. From the Trenches - ENTERTAINING
I finally did it today. For the first time in over a year, I had a friend over
for coffee. My house is not anywhere near perfect, but the kitchen was clean
(and so was the coffee pot!), and the dining room table was cleared and the
bathroom wasn't gross. Fortunately my friend can be a clutterbug herself,
so she didn't mind the laundry hampers and magazine piles in the living room.
I have found that my messy lifestyle has definitely held my social life back.
I would love to invite people over for dinner, but I am too embarrassed to do
so. When I was growing up, I had to give my OCD cleanie dad (whom I love dearly)
at least one week's notice just to have a friend over to watch a movie, because
the house had to be perfect before anyone could come into the house. I finally
gave up because I could never meet his expectations. He has only been in my house
twice since we moved into it, even though we live only about ten minutes away.
I am now trying to come to some place in the middle. I think about the opportunities
I have lost, and I don't want to put my life off any longer because of my
pack-rat disorganization.
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8. More Info
This is a simple program. We stick with the basics as they are presented in
these messages. Keep reading. Keep adding one part of the program at a time.
Repetition is important.
Forward to friends if desired but not to other sites. Read this whole posting
or only what you can take in today, then delete it.
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9. Extra Help
Does your clutter secret keep you isolated?
Mary said, “I was so cluttered before I took this class and I can’t believe
the progress I am making! My clutter is almost gone!
Learn more about the Organizing Mastery program by clicking here.
Click here If you'd like to speak to an organizer about your clutter problem.
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10. Free YouTube Videos
Learn how to get organized with Marsha's (FREE) YouTube videos!
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Don't forget the daily reminders!!!
The daily Reminders and How-To's are found on our website at "How to Begin"
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MESSIES ANONYMOUS SLOGAN
Please memorize this slogan and post it on your wall.
The secret to success is making very small, yet very consistent, changes.
Or to make it short; Baby steps, baby steps in the right direction.
Never underestimate the inevitability of gradualness.
Anonymous
69 © Sandra Felton 2010
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founder of Messies Anonymous.
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