Friday, May 28, 2021

 T.E.A.M. and DE-CLUTTERING


Half of our organizational problems would be solved if we had half the stuff we do.

from Winning the Clutter War
by Sandra Felton THE ORGANIZER LADY®
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Contents of New Ideas for Today
1. Message of the Day - T.E.A.M.
2. Habit of the Day
3. Family Reminder of the Day
4. Quote of the Day
5. Did You Know?
6. Question of the Day
7. From the Trenches - DE-CLUTTERING
8, More Info
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1. Message of the Day

T. E. A. M.

T ogether
E veryone
A ccomplishes
M ore

People who live together in a house must work as a team to make the household function at its best. You are not the only player. You should not even be the star player. Instead you should be the coach who instructs, encourages, motivates, and moves your team to be its best.

Your attitude should not be that you are the one responsible and asking for help. Instead you should not be hesitant to designate jobs to be done. They are not your jobs they are helping with; they are family jobs which all are sharing. Don't think you are burdening your children with jobs that you should be doing when you include them as part of the team. They need to learn skills and responsibility. Rightly done, including other members of the family will be the best thing you can do for them. And yourself!

Maybe you should make a sign using this T.E.A.M. reminder and post it in a conspicuous place. Perhaps you can think of a better one.
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2. Habit of the Day (Tongue in cheek)

Consider the Five Foot Magnetism Phenomena. When an object comes within five feet of where it belongs, it feels an irresistible magnetic pull to that spot. Example: Towel to towel rack, dirty clothes to dirty clothes hamper, clothes to hanger in closet, pen to drawer. To fail to allow them to follow that magnetic pull sets up an invisible tension in the home which can be felt in some undefinable way among the inhabitants. Set up a new habit. Live in harmony with the Five Foot Magnetism Phenomena. Always put things back where they belong so your house won't be under tension.

Stow As You Go!
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3. Family Reminder of the Day

In our family, we write what we need on the white board.

In our family, we move the garbage cans out of sight after they are emptied at the curb
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4. Quote of the Day

"When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences."

The key to finding the kind of life you seek is your behavior. Behave your way to success. Choose to begin certain habits consistently whether you feel like it or not. Fake it till you make it. Your house doesn't care whether your heart is in it or you are just going through the motions. Order will be the result.
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5. Did You Know?

 

The NEW and IMPROVED K.I.S.S. Flipper

 

The  K.I.S.S.(Keep It Super Simple) Flipper has fresh ideas on how to move through your home, day by day, room by room, with simple choices for maintenance and organizing. It will gently guide you through the process of creating clear and shining surfaces throughout your home!

 

With the NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper all you have to do to is FLIP through the spiral-bound, sequentially numbered, full-color job idea cards.  No more sliding cards into sleeves; the NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper is ready to use out of the package.  When you are ready to begin, make a few simple choices each day from one card and you will be on your way to a clutter-free and well maintained home.

 

Free BONUS:  Once you order, you will also receive the "K.I.S.S. eBooklet" via email to learn the "Hows and Whys" of the system while you wait for your Flipper, so you will be ready to start the day your Flipper arrives.

 

Introductory price $26.00 US postage included

 

Go to the link below to order you NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper today.

messies.com



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What is the best planner to use to help keep track of your appointments?

The SOS Organizing Program will give you the step-by-step organizing skills to rid your home or office of clutter.

Get all the facts. Learn which organizing tools to use to help you keep track of your appointments.

Click Here to Learn more about the SOS Organizing Program Today! 


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If “I want to get rid of it but I just can’t” sounds like you and if you are ready to change, this e-booklet is for you.

 

I've Got to Get Rid of This Stuff

 

This is a self-help program designed to make a significant difference in three weeks’ time.

 

Click here to go to our webpage where you can purchase for $6.00. The e-booklet will be sent to you via email.

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6. Question of the Day

Previously we asked whether you had any projects that needed to be started in order to solve problems that have held on too long. But today the question is whether you can name just one boring, half-finished project that needs to be completed. Look around and spy just one thing. Tell us what you see and will start to tackle.

Tell us by posting on Friends-of-The-Organizer-Lady.
Friends of the Organizer Lady
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7. From the Trenches

ABOUT MOVING BUT GOOD FOR ANY TIME.
LET'S ALL PRETEND WE ARE MOVING!

Start by getting rid of all the stuff you don't want to move that includes everything you don't need or use no matter how good it is. Some one else can use it so get it out of your house to Good Will or some other organization but be ruthless and get rid of stuff. Clear out all the old papers and magazines. Don't just move them elsewhere in the house. You'll get more later. Clear out what you don't wear or can't wear, kids clothes too. Worn out linens, blankets. All that stuff must go. Then you can start cleaning what you are keeping and put it in boxes to move. Don't keep lots of dishes and mugs you don't need. I think you get the picture.
(Thanks, Bev)
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8. More Info

This is a simple program. We stick with the basics as they are presented in these messages. Keep reading. Keep adding one part of the program at a time.

Repetition is important.
Forward to friends if desired but not to other sites. Read this whole posting or only what you can take in today, then delete it.

Don't forget the daily reminders!!!
The daily Reminders and How-To's are found on our website at
"How to Begin" http://www.messies.com
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MESSIES ANONYMOUS SLOGAN

Please memorize this slogan and post it on your wall.

The secret to success is making very small, yet very consistent, changes.

Or to make it short; Baby steps, baby steps in the right direction.

Never underestimate the inevitability of gradualness.
Anonymous

34 © Sandra Felton 2010

THE ORGANIZER LADY® is a registered trademark
of Sandra Felton, founder of Messies Anonymous.


Thursday, May 27, 2021

ON COURSE and SMALL STEPS

Feeling overwhelmed and frustrated? Have you tried to solve the clutter problem and it has just not worked? I understand. All of us in Messies Anonymous understand. The good news is that there is an answer and you can learn to live an organized and harmonious life.

 

Read the messages below to get back on course.
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Contents of New Ideas for Today
1. Message of the Day - KEEP ON COURSE
2. Do You Know?
3. Habit of the Day
4. Family Reminder of the Day
5. Quote of the Day
6. Question of the Day
7. From the Trenches - SMALL STEPS
8. More Info
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1. Message of the Day

KEEP ON COURSE

Don't stop just because you drift away from your organizational path or falter badly. Airliners and space crafts are off course more than they are on. The secret is to do what pilots and astronauts do; make an adjustment when you realize you are off course. Don't use energy worrying about it. Just get back on course and keep heading for your destination.
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2. Did You Know?

 

We have two resources available to encourage you in this life journey:

 

Organizing by THE BOOK

 

Organizing Your Day

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The NEW and IMPROVED K.I.S.S. Flipper

 

The  K.I.S.S.(Keep It Super Simple) Flipper has fresh ideas on how to move through your home, day by day, room by room, with simple choices for maintenance and organizing. It will gently guide you through the process of creating clear and shining surfaces throughout your home!

 

With the NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper all you have to do to is FLIP through the spiral-bound, sequentially numbered, full-color job idea cards.  No more sliding cards into sleeves; the NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper is ready to use out of the package.  When you are ready to  begin, make a few simple choices each day from one card and you will be on your way to a clutter-free and well maintained home.

 

Free BONUS:  Once you order, you will also receive the "K.I.S.S. eBooklet" via email to learn the "Hows and Whys" of the system while you wait for your Flipper, so you will be ready to start the day your Flipper arrives.

 

Introductory price $26.00 US postage included

 

Go to the link below to order you NEW K.I.S.S. Flipper today.

messies.com



image


messies.com

One of a kind design for home maintenance, The Super Flipper by Sand...

 

View on messies.com

Preview by Yahoo


 

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Your home is tidy on the surface, but every possible storage space is crammed with too much stuff?

The SOS Organizing Program will give you the step-by-step organizing skills to rid your home or office of clutter.

Don't miss out!  Learn to organize your storage spaces with the SOS Program

Click Here to Learn more about the SOS Organizing Program Today!


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If “I want to get rid of it but I just can’t” sounds like you and if you are ready to change, this e-booklet is for you.

 

I've Got to Get Rid of This Stuff

 

This is a self-help program designed to make a significant difference in three weeks’ time.

 

Click here to go to our webpage where you can purchase for $6.00. The e-booklet will be sent to you via email.

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3. Habit of the Day

Commit for just this one day.

FOLLOW THE RULE OF TEN (MINUTES)
Set a timer for ten minutes and attack a hot spot with a vengeance.
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4. Family Reminder of the Day

Pick one of these reminders or make one of your own to share with your family each day.
- In our family, we pay attention to maintaining beauty.


- In our family, we push our chairs back up to the table when we leave.

- In our family, we use one bath towel for a week.

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5. Quote of the Day

Alone we can do so little.
Together we can do so much.

Helen Keller
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6. Question of the Day

Break out of the envelope of thinking. Do not try to do it so much on your own. Are you overlooking sources of outside help? The question of the day is, Who MIGHT you consider to get to help you who you have not asked before? It may be family, friends, or someone you hire. Let us know.

Tell us by posting on Friends-of-The-Organizer-Lady.

Friends of the Organizer Lady
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7. From the Trenches

SMALL STEPS

Sandra Felton (The Organizer Lady® & host of our site) says that we Messies are not a lazy bunch. We give it a lot of effort. What tends to be the problem is that we are not focused the right way. There are baby steps that each of us can take to get us going in the right direction. Friends-of- the-Organizer-Lady online group has some good suggestions as well and Sandra Felton's books Organizing Your Day, Messie No More (now titled Organizing for Life) or any one of the others she has written can help.

It has been by baby steps that I have gotten where I am today. It is far from what I want, but far from what it was as well! Accomplishment by those small steps that changed habits.

(Thanks to Barbara)
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8. More Info

This is a simple program. We stick with the basics as they are presented in these messages. Keep reading. Keep adding one part of the program at a time.

Repetition is important.
Forward to friends if desired but not to other sites.
Read this whole posting or only what you can take in today, then delete it.

Don't forget the daily reminders!!!
The daily Reminders and How-To's are found on our website at "How to Begin" http://www.messies.com
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MESSIES ANONYMOUS SLOGAN

Please memorize this slogan and post it on your wall.

The secret to success is making very small, yet very consistent, changes.

Or to make it short; Baby steps, baby steps in the right direction.

Never underestimate the inevitability of gradualness.
Anonymous

33 © 2010, Sandra Felton

THE ORGANIZER LADY® is a registered trademark
of Sandra Felton, founder of Messies Anonymous.